A recent advice column addressed two different individuals seeking guidance on how to respond to uncomfortable situations. The first person, “Hair Yesterday, Gone Today,” expressed frustration over receiving comments about not changing physically despite their baldness compared to their previous long hair. The columnist advised them to take the compliment in good spirits and perhaps respond with humor by saying they have only gotten better with time.
The second individual, “Missing Marriage,” shared their distress over being excluded from a family tree created by their sister-in-law due to her beliefs against gay marriage. The columnist reassured them that their relationship’s validity does not depend on others’ beliefs and recommended voicing their displeasure to set boundaries with the in-law. They suggested throwing out the incorrect family tree and creating their own to reflect their true relationship status.
The columnist, R. Eric Thomas, also provided contact information for readers to submit questions for future advice columns. The advice given encouraged readers to maintain a positive attitude while addressing uncomfortable situations and emphasized the importance of setting boundaries with family members who may not be accepting of certain aspects of their lives. Readers were directed to follow Thomas on social media and sign up for his newsletter for more advice in the future.
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