Local government employee struggles with feelings for colleague
A long-time employee at a local government agency has written to advice columnist Annie Lane seeking guidance on how to navigate a difficult situation. The employee, who has developed a close friendship with a colleague named Catie over the past four years, is grappling with romantic feelings for her. Despite being happily married, the employee has hinted at these feelings to Catie but has not acted on them physically.
Feeling dishonest for not openly discussing these feelings with Catie, the employee is seeking advice on how to approach the situation respectfully. Annie Lane cautions the employee to prioritize honesty with their spouse and suggests focusing on their “happy marriage” instead of pursuing a work crush.
In a separate letter to Annie Lane, another reader expresses concern for their best friend, Amanda, who is having an affair with a married man. The reader, who believes infidelity is wrong, is torn between wanting to help their friend and fearing rejection if they confront her. Annie advises the reader to continue being a supportive friend but to also focus on their own life and marriage, as ultimately they cannot control Amanda’s choices.
Annie Lane’s advice columns provide insights and guidance on navigating complex relationships and moral dilemmas. Her latest anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” offers wisdom on marriage, infidelity, communication, and reconciliation. Readers can send their questions to dearannie@creators.com for advice on a variety of relationship issues.
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