A man seeks advice in a letter to Annie Lane about his wife’s abusive behavior, mirroring what she experienced in her previous marriage. Despite expressing his frustrations and asking for a change, the behavior continues, leading him to seek marriage counseling as a last resort. Annie advises that both partners must want to change their behavior and have mutual respect for each other to save the marriage.
In another letter, a mother struggles with her adult sons, who have addiction and narcissism issues and have cut off contact with her. Despite attempts to have a close relationship, she is advised by her therapist to let go and work on forgiveness and healing. It is suggested that by finding peace within herself, there is a greater chance her sons may come back when they are ready and in need of support.
Annie Lane’s new book, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is available now, featuring columns on marriage, infidelity, communication, and reconciliation. Readers can send their questions to Annie Lane at dearannie@creators.com for advice.
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