In a recent letter to advice columnist R. Eric Thomas, a wife expressed her distress over her husband taking up flying lessons, as she lost her first husband in a small plane crash years ago. Despite her logical side telling her lightning won’t strike twice, she still carries fear from the past trauma. The columnist advised the wife to seek counseling with her husband to discuss their feelings and find a compromise.
In another letter, a friend shared concerns about a longtime friend who has distanced herself recently. Despite the friend’s tumultuous life filled with family drama, the writer wonders if they should continue reaching out. The columnist encouraged the writer to ask the friend directly about the status of their friendship and to express willingness to put in effort for the relationship.
Readers are reminded to communicate openly and honestly with loved ones, especially during difficult times, and to prioritize understanding and support in maintaining meaningful connections. For more advice on relationships and communication, readers can contact R. Eric Thomas at eric@askingeric.com or visit his website for weekly newsletters.
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