In a recent column for the Tribune Content Agency, advice columnist R. Eric Thomas addressed a letter from a woman who is struggling with her husband’s infidelity and her children’s reaction to it. The woman, who is currently battling cancer, shared that her husband has a history of cheating and that her children have become aware of his actions.
Despite the infidelity, the woman still loves her husband and is unsure of how to proceed. She is financially dependent on him and fears the impact that a divorce would have on her family. Her children have been urging her to leave, but she is hesitant to do so.
Thomas advised the woman to have a conversation with her husband about taking responsibility for his actions and addressing the impact on their children. He also suggested seeking support from a family therapist to help navigate the difficult situation.
Ultimately, Thomas emphasized the importance of the woman’s emotional well-being, urging her to prioritize her own needs and seek help if necessary. He reminded her that she deserves respect and care, and that it is not unreasonable to expect her husband to take responsibility for his actions.
For more advice from R. Eric Thomas, readers can send questions to eric@askingeric.com or visit his website at rericthomas.com.
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