A woman seeks advice from Dear Abby about her aunt who frequently cuts people out of her life for perceived slights. The woman no longer wants to be involved in the drama of being cut off and wonders how to handle informing her aunt of her father’s death without inviting her back into her life. Abby advises her to tell her aunt about the death and let her decide if she wants to attend the funeral, as funerals are meant to comfort the living.
Another reader seeks advice on dealing with her husband’s irritating habits now that they are spending more time together at home. Abby suggests creating some distance and communicating about what bothers each other, as well as being open to making changes to save the marriage.
Lastly, a woman dating a widower who still expresses love for his late wife seeks advice on how to handle his attachment to her. Abby notes that it is possible to love a deceased spouse while loving a living partner, but ultimately the woman must decide if she can accept his feelings for his late wife.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and readers can contact her through her website or mailing address.
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