A mother expresses frustration over being asked to send money with her son when he visits his friend’s house in town, while the friend’s family does not provide food. She questions if it is fair for her to feel this way. Annie addresses her concern by suggesting that since the mother would be providing meals for her son anyway, it may be considerate to send him with cash. She also mentions that the friend’s family might have financial constraints, which could be the reason for asking for money.
In another letter, a mother seeks advice on her 23-year-old daughter who moved back in after a toxic relationship. The daughter lacks a job, driver’s license, and goals for independence, instead focusing on socializing to cope with her sadness and depression. The mother feels frustrated and unsure of how to support her daughter without enabling her lack of responsibility. Annie advises the mother to set boundaries and encourage her daughter to take steps towards self-sufficiency by getting a job, studying for a driver’s license, or pursuing education.
Annie Lane’s advice column tackles common family issues and provides practical solutions for readers seeking guidance. Her latest anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is available for those looking for more in-depth advice on matters of marriage, infidelity, communication, and reconciliation. Readers can submit questions to dearannie@creators.com for personalized advice.
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