In a recent letter to advice columnist R. Eric Thomas, a reader in their late 20s expressed concerns about finding balance in their life as they navigate work, friendships, relationships, and their mental and physical health. The reader, who is a full-time graduate student and working full time, feels overwhelmed by the prospect of adding a romantic relationship to their already busy schedule.
Thomas acknowledges the challenges of achieving balance in one’s 20s, likening it to DJing – a constant mix of different tracks that require adjustments and fine-tuning. He suggests prioritizing physical and mental health as a foundation for success in other areas of life.
The columnist advises the reader to focus on their own timeline and not worry about societal expectations or timelines for achieving certain milestones. He encourages the reader to explore memoirs by authors like Samantha Irby, Scaachi Koul, and David Rakoff for humor and perspectives on navigating the complexities of life in their 20s.
Ultimately, Thomas reassures the reader that there is more time than they think and that finding balance is about staying true to oneself and taking care of one’s well-being. He emphasizes that life may not go according to plan but that by remaining authentic and self-aware, the reader will learn to navigate the challenges and joys of relationships, work, and personal growth.
For more advice and insights from R. Eric Thomas, readers can send questions to eric@askingeric.com or visit his website at rericthomas.com.
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