A 40-something woman in Idaho recently shared her experience of facing judgment while using a wheelchair due to an invisible disability that causes seizures. She explained that some days she can walk, while other days she needs assistance. She expressed frustration at receiving dirty looks from strangers when her elderly father helps push her wheelchair during outings.
The woman emphasized the importance of understanding that not all disabilities are visible, and it is acceptable to use a wheelchair if needed. She urged for more awareness and sensitivity towards individuals with hidden disabilities. In response, Dear Abby advised her to ignore the negativity and simply smile at those who judge her.
In Tennessee, a 24-year-old wife and mother of three shared her struggle to balance caring for her family and finding time for herself. She expressed feelings of guilt and selfishness when considering her own needs, attributing some of it to the responsibility she had growing up as the second oldest of 10 siblings. She asked for advice on how to prioritize self-care without feeling guilty.
Dear Abby reassured the young mother that her feelings are normal and may be influenced by hormonal changes. She encouraged her to speak with a doctor about her emotions and consider seeking help from family members or other resources to ease her responsibilities. Abby suggested that as her children grow older, she will have more opportunities to focus on herself.
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