Male couple celebrating 34 years of partnership were shocked to discover extremist views of straight couples they met on a cruise, including disparagement of gays. Despite being welcomed and treated warmly during the cruise, the couples had posted hurtful and false comments on social media. The couple, conflicted on how to handle the situation, are considering canceling a future cruise booking made with the group.
In another scenario, a widow who befriended her neighbor after their respective spouses passed away is facing opposition from the neighbor’s controlling daughter. Despite developing a friendship and being invited out to dinner, the daughter has put a stop to their interactions and even found another female friend for her father. The widow is unsure whether to move on or try to salvage the friendship.
Dear Abby offers advice to both situations, suggesting that the male couple confront the straight couples about their views and express their hurt and disappointment. As for the widow and her neighbor, she advises open communication and expressing desire to continue the friendship if both parties wish to do so.
Dear Abby, written by Abigail Van Buren (Jeanne Phillips), offers advice and guidance to those seeking solutions to personal and interpersonal issues. The column can be contacted through www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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