A mom seeking advice on handling a cashier’s intrusive comments after buying a pregnancy test shared her experience with columnist R. Eric Thomas. The mom, 15 months postpartum and still breastfeeding, was concerned about her irregular cycle and decided to buy a pregnancy test to confirm a negative result. The cashier congratulated her, leading to an awkward exchange where the mom explained she wasn’t ready for another child. The cashier then advised her to enjoy any life she creates, which the mom found intrusive and nosy.
Thomas commended the mom for handling the situation with grace and offered a suggestion for how she could have set boundaries with the cashier. He advised her to politely remind the cashier that it’s not appropriate to comment on personal purchases and redirect the conversation. Thomas acknowledged that the cashier’s comments were well-meaning but ultimately inappropriate given the context.
The column concludes by inviting readers to submit their own questions to Thomas for advice on various topics. Overall, the article highlights the importance of setting boundaries in personal interactions and offers a thoughtful perspective on navigating awkward social situations.
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