After a decade of loneliness following a divorce, a woman has found love with a man named Drew. However, their relationship is complicated by the erratic and angry behavior of Drew’s 27-year-old son, Adam, who lives in the same building. Adam has struggled with bipolar disorder, and while Drew now claims the diagnosis was inaccurate, Adam still struggles with managing his emotions.
The woman is concerned about Drew’s passive approach to dealing with Adam’s behavior, which often includes swearing, manipulation, and disrespect. She worries that the co-dependence between the father and son will prevent Adam from living an independent life. Despite her strong feelings for Drew, she is unsure if she can handle a future with his son as a “package deal.”
Dear Abby advises the woman to accept that Adam is part of the package and that Drew is unlikely to change their dynamic. If she is satisfied with the status quo, she can stay, but if she wants a more serious commitment with Drew, she may need to step out of the picture.
In another letter, a woman is falling for a guy who says he is attracted to her but doesn’t want a relationship. She wants to date him without the commitment of a relationship. Dear Abby suggests she communicate her desires to him and see how he reacts to determine if they are on the same page.
Overall, both letters highlight the complexities of romantic relationships and the need for open communication to navigate challenges and uncertainties.
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