In a recent Dear Annie column, a reader expressed their dilemma of having a crush on a much younger co-worker, fearing that their significant age gap could ruin their friendship. The reader, a 42-year-old, has had past relationships with significant age differences and is unsure of how to proceed with the current situation. Despite wanting to ask the 18-year-old co-worker out on a date, they are hesitant about potentially complicating things at work and risking their friendship.
Annie advises the reader to consider the significant differences in life experience between themselves and the younger co-worker, emphasizing the value of their existing friendship. While a romantic relationship is not impossible in the future, Annie suggests focusing on enjoying the friendship they have built for now.
In another letter, a reader expresses regret over moving away from their daughter and her family after finding it challenging to adapt to city life. The reader sold their house and belongings to make the move, but ultimately decided to return to their small town. Despite missing their daughter and family deeply, the reader’s daughter has rejected the idea of them moving back.
Annie offers advice for coping with the regret of leaving, encouraging the reader to maintain their relationship with their daughter through communication and visits. If relocating to Colorado is not possible, Annie suggests embracing their small town as their home and seeking fulfillment through new friendships and experiences. The column also promotes Annie Lane’s latest anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?,” available in paperback and e-book formats.
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