In a recent letter to Dear Abby, a reader described her friend’s struggles with her penny-pinching husband. Despite having substantial assets, he refuses to spend money on gifts, dinners, or even groceries. This cheapness has put a strain on their marriage, with the wife feeling unappreciated and frustrated.
The husband’s frugality extends to splitting bills with friends and even going as far as buying meals from the hospital cafeteria to save money. The wife, on the other hand, goes out of her way to treat him to special occasions and events. Although their finances are separate, she feels he should make an effort to acknowledge holidays and important events.
Abby suggests that the wife confront her husband about his behavior and seek counseling if necessary. She also advises the wife to become less generous and take care of herself when visiting his home. Ultimately, it may be a case of two very different people who may not be compatible in terms of their spending habits.
Dear Abby offers advice on a variety of topics and is known for its honest and straightforward approach to helping readers navigate difficult situations. Readers can reach out to Dear Abby for advice through their website or mailing address.
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