A young person struggling with chronic health issues for over a decade is frustrated by the dismissive reactions of others when they mention their health struggles, especially from strangers and acquaintances. They often get comments like “you’re too young to be tired or in pain.” The person is tired of having to explain or justify their struggles and just wants to be able to share how they’re feeling without facing judgment or unsolicited advice.
The advice given is that the person’s health is private and they don’t owe anyone an explanation. It’s important for them to prioritize their well-being and not let others’ opinions affect them. Sometimes, the best response is no response. Compassion from others and self-compassion are key in dealing with chronic health issues.
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