After 14 years of living with his mother-in-law, a man is seeking advice on how to politely ask her to move out before he retires and moves into his dream home with his wife. The man initially invited his mother-in-law to live with them while she was going through a rough time, but now feels it is time for her to find her own place as they enter this new phase of their lives.
The man and his wife have had arguments due to the interference of the mother-in-law, and they both agree that it is time for her to move on. The woman is healthy and independent enough to live on her own and run her own errands, so the man feels it is overdue for her to find her own space.
Dear Abby advises the man to have a family conference with his wife and mother-in-law to explain the situation and offer assistance in finding a new place and moving. Expecting some resistance, the key is to be compassionate but firm, as after 14 years of living together, it is time for a change.
Dear Abby, written by Abigail Van Buren, offers advice on relationships and family matters. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com for more information.
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