Bellevue, Washington resident “Sleepy” is seeking advice on how to approach their neighbors about their car alarm constantly going off due to their sensitive alarm system being triggered by their cat. Sleepy has tried to connect with the neighbors in the past but to no avail. They are now considering writing a note to the neighbors to address the issue politely and asking if the alarm can be set to be less sensitive or if the cat can be kept inside to avoid disturbing the neighborhood.
In another letter, a California resident is struggling with whether to tell their family about their prostate cancer diagnosis. Despite receiving support from their wife, they have not informed their children, siblings, relatives, or friends. The person is unsure if they should keep it a secret, tell their family, or let their wife inform them if they do not survive the treatment. Dear Abby advises considering personal reasons for keeping quiet, seeking emotional support, and not burdening the wife with the responsibility of informing the family after their passing.
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