In a close-knit neighborhood, a mother is facing a dilemma regarding her son and his best friend having to constantly entertain a younger child, causing frustration. The mother, along with the other child’s mother, wants to address the issue with kindness and sensitivity.
The mother communicates her concerns with her friend, suggesting that the older kids need some space to hang out and do things for kids their own age without constantly looking after the younger child. She proposes planning specific playdates for all three kids to spend time together, emphasizing that constant inclusion is not necessary.
The advice given is to set boundaries with the younger child, letting him know when it’s not a good time to play. While it may be difficult for the other mother to hear initially, it’s important to prioritize the needs of the older children and allow them to have the freedom to enjoy their childhood without added responsibility.
The column also mentions Annie Lane’s new anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” and provides information on where to find it. Readers are encouraged to send their questions to Annie Lane for advice on various topics related to relationships and family dynamics.
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