A couple is planning a milestone anniversary celebration in the south of France and is considering asking for donations to offset the cost of renting a $25-30,000 villa for a month. Annie advises against asking guests to help cover the cost, suggesting that the couple should primarily bear the expenses as the hosts. If financial assistance is needed, framing the trip as a group vacation rather than an anniversary celebration may be more appropriate.
In another letter, a daughter is struggling to communicate with her mother, who constantly brings up her past trauma and experiences with her son’s biological father. Annie advises the daughter to set boundaries with her mother and make it clear what topics are off-limits for discussion. Focusing on the present rather than dwelling on the past is important for the daughter’s relationships with her new husband and son.
Annie Lane’s advice column tackles issues of forgiveness, communication, and rebuilding relationships. Her second anthology, “How Can I Forgive My Cheating Partner?” is now available for readers interested in marriage, infidelity, and reconciliation. Readers can submit questions to Annie Lane at dearannie@creators.com.
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