Press Article: Family Struggles Highlighted in ‘Dear Abby’
In a recent column, a reader, identified as "Concerned Cousin in Oregon," shared her worries about her cousin—who has recently made troubling life choices since her second child’s birth. This cousin, akin to a sister, has separated from her husband and engaged in relationships with potentially abusive partners. She plans to grant full custody of her children to her ex and impulsively purchase a home out of state while cutting ties with family members, including her sister and mother, who suggested seeking professional help.
The anxious cousin’s quandary centers on whether to continue supporting her relative while fearing for her well-being. Abigail Van Buren suggested that the cousin express her love and concern honestly, while also setting boundaries, stepping back until her cousin is ready for support.
Another letter highlighted "Tired in the East," who expressed frustration about accommodating a new grandson-in-law’s loud family, questioning the boundaries of hospitality. Van Buren emphasized the importance of asserting the right to control guest lists, especially in light of the hosts’ advancing age and energy constraints.
These letters reflect universal family dilemmas around support, boundaries, and self-care.
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