A grieving widow, who cared for her husband with Alzheimer’s in a retirement community, is feeling abandoned by friends who did not visit or offer support during his illness and after his passing. Despite living close by, these friends have not reached out since his death, leading the widow to feel resentful and unsure about the importance of their friendship.
The widow, who values the relationships she has with these individuals, is considering resigning from a dinner group she still attends with their wives due to the emptiness she feels without her husband. She wonders if she is being overly sensitive or if she should have seen the signs of these changing friendships earlier.
Advice columnist R. Eric Thomas reassures the widow that her feelings are valid and understandable given the circumstances. He encourages her to prioritize her emotional well-being and protect her heart, even if it means stepping back from relationships that no longer serve her. Thomas suggests having a one-on-one conversation with a friend or two to express her feelings and give them an opportunity to address the situation.
The article concludes with contact information for readers to submit questions to Thomas and mentions his newsletter and social media accounts for further engagement.
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