A concerned son in Chicago is seeking advice from Dear Abby on how to help his mother, who recently moved close to him and his wife. Despite being in good health and active, she is resistant to meeting new people and going out on her own. She has quit the senior center, church, and declined invitations from neighbors. The son is worried that she will become completely dependent on them for social interaction as she ages.
Dear Abby suggests that the son have a direct conversation with his mother about the importance of interacting with others and making an effort to build relationships. She recommends suggesting volunteer work at an animal shelter as a way for his mother to engage with others and not rely solely on her family.
In another letter, a friend seeks advice on how to help their friend who has been dating a man for 10 years, who seems reluctant to commit and has put her through a lot. The writer suspects the man may be a narcissist. Dear Abby advises the friend to wait for the friend to bring up the issue again and suggest seeking help from a licensed mental health professional to rebuild self-esteem.
Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and offers advice on a variety of personal and relationship issues. Reach out to Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.
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